Having a Pussy Is NOT A Job

By Scottie Lowe

There seems to be this thought process, this commonly-held belief that being a woman, that having a pussy is some sort of form of employment, that a vagina is a commodity men must purchase in order to be able to enjoy it, that sex is a business.  I’m here to say that while that’s what a pussy might have become in this patriarchal, misogynist, sexist, oppressive society, I’m here to boldly declare that having a pussy is not a job. 

7 Things All Women Want In A Relationship

By Jordan Gray

Men and women are at an emotional stalemate. We feel something’s lacking in our relationships. The majority of men aren’t able to penetrate their women fully, nor are women fully opening to their men.

Women aren’t opening because men aren’t giving them what they need. Women feel disappointed and resentful; they are suffering. When women suffer, and they feel like they aren’t being seen, they close off to their men. Fortunately, you can learn the right tools to be able to more fully penetrate your woman. You can give your partner what she needs, allowing her to feel seen so that she will open again. Take the time to read through these needs. Let them sink in. Understanding what you can do to help your partner fully open will not only improve your relationship, but it will improve your entire life.

Getting You To Love Me More

By Ryan O’Connell

I could have slept with fewer people before I met you. I could’ve been an untouched virgin — the Madonna, not the Whore — which would’ve made me more special. You look at me and you see a present that’s already been unwrapped. You accuse me of cheating on you all the time, of going behind your back, and it’s all because of my past. It has nothing to do with the present. Why, in bad relationships, do we always end up focusing more on the past than the present? Why is it relevant? Maybe I should stop asking so many questions. I should just shut up and pray that you love me more in the morning.

Why 20-Something Women Need To Stop Thinking Like 30-Something Women

Written by Lauren Martin

I’m never getting married. I’m never going to have kids. I’m going to be alone for the rest of my life. I am never going to be in love again. Ladies, don’t deny that these thoughts haven’t crossed your mind at least once this month. At your loneliest, weakest (and probably drunkest) points, you’ve either thought, shouted or cried into the arm of your best friend these exact sentiments. Why can’t I find a boyfriend!? Will I ever settle down and get married?

I Love Who I am When You Are Inside Me

By AfroerotiK

I close my eyes and I feel your lips touch mine and I’m lifted, transported to a time and space where I become the embodiment of all that is feminine and womanly.  That primal instinct, that genetic, biological, evolutionary stuff that makes me a woman, that makes me think and move and navigate the world like a true womb-man is activated and I feel . . . I FEEL alive and whole.  Your hand reaches out to caress my flesh and my body comes alive.  You tell me your dirty little secrets, I reveal mine, and I know that we are intimately bonded.  

Designer Spotlight: Marc Jacobs

One of my all-time favorite designers of all tim has got to be the legendary and iconic American designer Marc Jacobs who has created some of the most beautiful and stylish clothing to ever touch the catwalk and the red carpet.  He recently stepped down as the creative director of Louis Vuitton concentrate on his own eponymous label, during the past two decades he has managed to change the brand into a global powerhouse.

He is known for his feminine and stylish pieces that the most stylish women in Hollywood wear at various red carpets and different events. Below are some of my favorite looks that he has designed and the beautiful women who constantly sport his beautiful clothes.

Gabourey Sidibe’s Touching Speech On Confidence

The Academy Award-nominated actress Gabourey Sidibe made deeply personal and touching speech about confidence during the Gloria Awards and Gala, which is an awards ceremony to honor “women of vision” hosted by the Ms. Foundation for Women.

Gabby talked about being secure with herself and how she feels about being asked, “How are you so confident?” while people like Rihanna never get asked those type of questions mainly because people judge someone based on their appearance, which is honestly fucked up.

Read her inspiring speech below.

Beyonce's Style Evolution

Out the two Knowles sisters Solange is hands down the most stylish one as she doesn`t try too hard to showcase her love for fashion nor tries to dress to impress, she is just doing her own thing with mostly great results and she is clearly influenced by the 70`s and 80`s without looking out of date and loves experimenting each African inspire clothing as well. 

Brotherly Love: Vaughn And Zion

Vaughn, thank you so much for blessing my life with your love, guidance and protection. Nobody has ever understood me before and you have no idea how good that feels. I love how I can be myself with you no matter what no matter what I’m feeling - happy, sad, angry, afraid, excited - you let me feel those emotions without a second thought. I don’t guard what I feel nor say around you and that is honestly one of the best feelings in the world to just be able to be myself around you, completely.

A Mother`s Love

Moms carried every single one of us inside their bodies for more than nine months. Moms are usually the only person who will always love us unconditionally. Moms are the last person who will believe that we did anything wrong. Moms love us when no one else can, they take care of us when we are sick. Moms understand all our trials and errors and moms forgive and forget every bad thing we have ever done, did or do.